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Camstyn · 08-08-2005, 10:26 AM

Don't put yourself too deep into the "friend zone" because once you're in there is almost no chance of getting back out. If she will date someone else while you are there being her friend at the same time you've essentially blown it. Realize that it's never going to happen because you can't make someone love you. If you can get over your feelings for her and just be her friend then that's great but if you're going to be constantly wishing she'd get over her current boyfriend and realize why you're so much better for her, it's best to stay away because you're just going to be torturing yourself. Take it from me, it took me 5 years to figure that one out and I just nailed that coffin shut recently.

08-08-2005, 10:26 AM	#11 (permalink)
Camstyn Upright	Don't put yourself too deep into the "friend zone" because once you're in there is almost no chance of getting back out. If she will date someone else while you are there being her friend at the same time you've essentially blown it. Realize that it's never going to happen because you can't make someone love you. If you can get over your feelings for her and just be her friend then that's great but if you're going to be constantly wishing she'd get over her current boyfriend and realize why you're so much better for her, it's best to stay away because you're just going to be torturing yourself. Take it from me, it took me 5 years to figure that one out and I just nailed that coffin shut recently.