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Originally Posted by maleficent
I don't think she's scared to admit the divorce was a mistake, it's probably what she wants... but there's a part of her that wants to get out on her own. and move on and such... but also doesnt necessarily want you to move on... she'd rather keep you as a 'safety net' in case the whole moving on thing doesnt work out for her.
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This is true and I'll add this bit more. The reason she is asking if you are having sex is because she is and feels guilty of it, when she thinks of you. When you say you are having sex, a burden will be lifted off her shoulders, a burden of guilt put there by herself. She needs justification that what she is doing isn't wrong, or that she is a slut, since she may feel that at times.
She has probably said things like or infered,.."that breaking up was a mistake, that things could have been worked out over time, etc,....If she hasn't said that yet, she will.
My advice. Move on and don't let her nature influence yours. When she is having a good time with someone, be it dinner, a party, sex,...you are the furthest thing from her mind. But when she is alone and bored, she is needy and since you have proven to be needy (you married her) she uses that guilded sense to make herself feel better, that everything will be o.k and when that is accomplished, she goes back to her life and forgets about yours. She is/will use you to feel better and since you are a guy, you will reassure her everything is good.
One more. Don't ask favours of her. Find someone else to do things for you.