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Yup, take care.
It's hard to say it, but keep your eye focussed on the goal and make sure the divorce goes through. It looks like you made up your mind and to back out could cause more trouble than it's worth.
The decision has been made and it's easy to forget what made you both sign that paper now that you are apart.
As the date draws closer, both of you will wonder whether you made the right decision, and it seems she already has.
As for not telling her, what do you think will be the reaction if she found out that you were not honest? It may do just the thing that you tried to avoid.
Were she to ask you again, personally, I'd mention that I'm separated from her and that it's my personal life that she's asking about.
You don't have to slap her in the face with it, but not lie. Just make it clear that now that you are no longer together, it shouldn't really concern her.
It's just my opinion, but I think it may make it easier for her to give it up and realise that it really is over.
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