Some very good advice, thanks all.
She initiated the divorce moved out on me a week after my birthday last year.
I jumped through every hoop to try to get her back and none of them worked, I gave up and moved on.
Yes, I have had sex since her, I just worry about her feelings and so I say no. The marriage is over, I have moved on, but I don't want to hurt her ...... after all the divorce is not yet final until Aug. 18th's court gavel falls on the dissolution.
The dog is fine, and the key I still don't know where it is.
My honest gut feeling is right before the court date she will try to postpone for some reason. Maybe deep down I'd like her to so I can say no, the date is the date.... I have moved on and to be honest she's a lousy friend, it's all her and when she wants things there's never any give and take.... lol just like when we were married.
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I just love people who use the excuse "I use/do this because I LOVE the feeling/joy/happiness it brings me" and expect you to be ok with that as you watch them destroy their life blindly following. My response is, "I like to put forks in an eletrical socket, just LOVE that feeling, can't ever get enough of it, so will you let me put this copper fork in that electric socket?"
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