Sometimes people get more concerned about who they'd find sexually appealing than just interacting with people. If more people could just enjoy other's without a sexual charge on everything then there'd be less conflict in a lot of ways. Some animals are not designed to have sex in order to reproduce. I think sometimes that we forget that the sex drive is just instinct to push us to reproduce. We're just lucky that sex can give us good feelings too. It makes sense to me that some people might not be designed to have that sex drive that other's do. Maybe you're just more highly evolved.
Have you ever had sex? or did you just date. I have found that when I have sex, it gives me a positive hormonal surge. What follows is a drive to gain that hormonal high again so my sex drive is revved up. One curiosity is that if you've never had a taste of that high if perhaps you received that high you would find a greater desire for sex. Then again if you have had sex but got no high off of it then obviously it wouldn't spur you on to searching for more sex.
I am curious about how you've felt with this. I've gone through times when I was completely uninterested in sex. It was a good feeling in a way. Less tension, in a sexual way, and just simply BEING. Is that somehow how you've felt?
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