Acetylenei agree i was also concerend more about the dog when i read this post i almost forgot what it was initially about!!! what happened to the dog?where was your key???
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Originally Posted by WillyPete
Who initiated the divorce proceedings?
Sounds to me like the finality of it is only just sinking in for her.
From the statement you made that you have slept with her a few times since then, it would seem that either you or/and her both feel it's ok to sleep with one another because you're both 'technically' still married even though it seems you both agree it won't work.
Is this also why you haven't slpet with anyone else? How about her?
Another point to consider is that as you are dating someone else, platonic or not, it will affect her self-esteem (particularly as you point out her psyche issues) because it will seem to her that she is easy to get over.
I'd assume that this would be why she would ask about your sexual partners, to strengthen her self-opinion that she is indeed not quite in your history yet and 'hard to get over'.
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ITA with aall of this!! definitly
also there are a number of reasons why she may ask and without knowing her personally i couldnt tell u.
how dyu feel about her asking?she wiill make it hard for you to be totally over her by the sounds of it
the issue here is, are you concerend about her asking???why do you think she is?
it wasnt so long ago you split..and she may indeed ask just because she wants toknow.....ask her?!?or just look at what you want and if the situation is right..and have closure in your own mind