Cross-over, most PARENTS knock before entering rooms, and typically have control (limited or all) over computer/internet privileges. The fact that he even controls anything in her life shows that he is taking a "parenting" role, which is not his duty.
Obviously he has good intentions. He doesn't want his sister getting into things, and getting hurt. But he needs to step back, and help his sister as a BROTHER. As I'm sure most know, as a teen, it seems really hard to communicate with the "all-knowing" parents. If your brother acts all-knowing and like a parent, you can bet his sister is not going to open up to him and tell him what's wrong/ask for advice/tell him her problems.
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