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Acetylene · 08-07-2005, 06:13 AM

Has it occurred to you that maybe she was concerned about your dog?

This dog, who I assume you care about because when you bought it you assumed a lifelong responsibility for it, was without its normal care for almost two days. Your soon-to-be-ex was understandably concerned about this, plus the fact that you seemed to be willing to leave it locked in your apartment for the whole week, saying there was "not much you could do" and not even mentioning that the office could let her in until tuesday!!

I'm sorry, but being in New Jersey is not an excuse to abandon all care of your dog. You should have stayed up all night worrying, phoned the office to get her a key Monday morning at 9 am, and then anxiously awaited her call to say your dog was ok. If there was no one else who had a key, you should have gone home. Yes, you read that right. I've done that myself, twice, when animals I left in someone else's care needed me.

I'm sorry but maybe if you actaully took responsibility seriously and cared for people AND ANIMALS who loved you, then maybe your wife wouldn't have left you. Just a thought.

08-07-2005, 06:13 AM	#21 (permalink)
Acetylene Addict Location: under a rock	Has it occurred to you that maybe she was concerned about your dog? This dog, who I assume you care about because when you bought it you assumed a lifelong responsibility for it, was without its normal care for almost two days. Your soon-to-be-ex was understandably concerned about this, plus the fact that you seemed to be willing to leave it locked in your apartment for the whole week, saying there was "not much you could do" and not even mentioning that the office could let her in until tuesday!! I'm sorry, but being in New Jersey is not an excuse to abandon all care of your dog. You should have stayed up all night worrying, phoned the office to get her a key Monday morning at 9 am, and then anxiously awaited her call to say your dog was ok. If there was no one else who had a key, you should have gone home. Yes, you read that right. I've done that myself, twice, when animals I left in someone else's care needed me. I'm sorry but maybe if you actaully took responsibility seriously and cared for people AND ANIMALS who loved you, then maybe your wife wouldn't have left you. Just a thought. __________________ There's no justice. There's just us.