Everyone is so nice... I'm wondering if we're trying to look good here... : >
Taking all the altruistic and sharing stuff as a given assumption for a sec... and I think I can relate to pretty much all that's been said so far.
Sometimes, as a guy, I just want to have a straightforward buildup/foreplay and orgasm in a shorter timeframe. I feel like I want to play rock music (4-10min song) vs maybe choosing to play/compose a classical sonata. The latter... well there're so many decisions to be made. Order, tempo, style. Sheesh. It can work well, or it can... er work less well. Give me the basic chords, the basic beat, a little break in the middle and I'm happy most of the time.
To be 100% candid for a sec... sometimes (not always mind) I find that women's biology re orgasm, or more fairly, male/female compatibility re orgasm, is a good argument against this so-called "intelligent design" that creationists are discussing these days.
Surely there're some others here that got to puberty and found that their sex-drive didn't align perfectly with their ideals, views, morals? Speak-up or this will be boring.
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