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Old 08-05-2005, 08:06 AM   #15 (permalink)
WillyPete
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Who initiated the divorce proceedings?

Sounds to me like the finality of it is only just sinking in for her.

From the statement you made that you have slept with her a few times since then, it would seem that either you or/and her both feel it's ok to sleep with one another because you're both 'technically' still married even though it seems you both agree it won't work.
Is this also why you haven't slpet with anyone else? How about her?

Another point to consider is that as you are dating someone else, platonic or not, it will affect her self-esteem (particularly as you point out her psyche issues) because it will seem to her that she is easy to get over.
I'd assume that this would be why she would ask about your sexual partners, to strengthen her self-opinion that she is indeed not quite in your history yet and 'hard to get over'.
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