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Originally Posted by maleficent
... she'd rather keep you as a 'safety net' in case the whole moving on thing doesnt work out for her.
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Mal, you are a genius. It is absolutely a safety net thing.
The most fearful thing for a human (IMHO) is the fear of the unknown. This girl is afraid of all the unknown shit in the future, and if you are there for her, then at least SOMETHING in her life will remain the same, and therefore safe and steady.
Dude, she is playing you. You need space.
Or you are thinking the same thing. You are scared of the unknown (not having her there, in some way or another).
What if you search for the rest of your life and all of the women in the world will never measure up to her?
What if feelings change, and you can avoid all of the bad things in the future by getting back together?
What if...What if...
I have no advice. I am only offering my view of the situation.