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You guys have all been such a great help. Abaya, If it would help to know my logistics behind the lunch thing, I am most tormented by one past relationship (out of 8, not so bad eh!) and one old crush, which both happened almost at the same time about 7 years ago. The reason why I can never get rid of them, atleast so I've come to figure, is that I had never had closure on either of them. The crush just ignored me, quite actively, and I never knew why. My past Girlfriend and I broke up, while still in love with eachother (as a result of politics mostly). With my past girlfriend, I have no idea where she is now. It was a 5 month long relationship and I could never see her again after that. So that is one I'll have to deal with, which has been the hardest. However, with all other relationships I had some kind of closure, and most of those women are friends of mine, not to mention one of them is my best friend (and a member of this forum too,) and I can get past them. In fact, I've learned enough from them to provide stellar advice in times of crisis with other friends of mine. So I figure, that to have lunch with this old crush, of seven years ago (so I believe all old feelings are lost, I mean we are no longer the same people at all,) will just close the book on the whole ordeal. if I make a friend out of it, that's a bonus. But I think perhaps I can have it where there is only one past relationship to tackle, and that would make it easier. What do you think?
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