I dunno, like...
perhaps you could sit down with your mom and tell her how you feel. I mean, she's your mom, she loves you. Say "Mom, I'd love to live with you, but I want it to be a temporary thing while I get myself organized, and here are some other things I want to talk about..." You both need to start acting like adults BEFORE you move in together- that makes it easier to act like adults after. If she slips up after you move in, then talk to her again. Sometimes parents have a hard time letting their kids grow up, and it sounds like your mom might have this problem when you live together.
Anyway, a little communication, a little understanding, and a lot of love will see you out of debt and eating good really soon!
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