My mom passed away in October of '04 from melanoma cancer. My father never ever helped my mom out...ever. I don't think people realize how lucky they are to have parents, even if they are seperated. I'm 21 yrs old. People my age are having the time of their lives in college and getting schnockered at the local kegger. I feel like I'm 30 and that my young years are going to slip right through my finger tips! Any advice on getting through this hard time without the ones you love?