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Originally Posted by maleficent
There is nothing wrong with living with your mother if it's purely to get yourself on sound financial footing and it's not a forever situation. Put a time frame on it and do your best to stick with it.
Now... (Forum Mother hat on) You are not a child, you are a grown man, living with your mother doesnt mean that she does your laundry and picks up after you. She might want to, because some moms do that (I wish I had one of those moms) but it's not her responsibility to do so.
Setup some ground rules ahead of time before moving in, like is she OK with you bringing women home, and will mom be making breakfast or stay out of the way. You're an adult, even though she's your mom, make this a roommate situation like you would with a random stranger. What if mom meets some guy and brings him home... you ok with that?
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That's what worries me, My mom still calls me her baby and she would do anything for me. I don't need her to pick up after me, I don't want her to pick up after me..But say i go out one night, She'll go into my room and clean it. It pisses me off. I know she's like this because she used to do it, And i know she'll do it again.
No..I wouldn't be ok with my mom bringing guys home, In fact..We work at the same place (Different departments) and i see guys flirting with her, When it comes to my mother..I will speak my mind. I have spoken my mind to a couple of those guys..Just because i know my mom can do a hell of alot better.
The ground rules thing would be the first thing set in place for sure.
It's still couple months away, So i still got time to think about it.