There is nothing wrong with living with your mother if it's purely to get yourself on sound financial footing and it's not a forever situation. Put a time frame on it and do your best to stick with it.
Now... (Forum Mother hat on) You are not a child, you are a grown man, living with your mother doesnt mean that she does your laundry and picks up after you. She might want to, because some moms do that (I wish I had one of those moms) but it's not her responsibility to do so.
Setup some ground rules ahead of time before moving in, like is she OK with you bringing women home, and will mom be making breakfast or stay out of the way. You're an adult, even though she's your mom, make this a roommate situation like you would with a random stranger. What if mom meets some guy and brings him home... you ok with that?
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