Aw, man. Those can be great and terrible. Losing a best friend because the dynamics didn't play as an SO is really a shame. Not to say all relationships that go this way die completely, but it's hazardous. Ideally you're SO _is_ your best friend, but so many other things come into play. As Monk would say, "It's a blessing... and a curse."
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There are a vast number of people who are uninformed and heavily propagandized, but fundamentally decent. The propaganda that inundates them is effective when unchallenged, but much of it goes only skin deep. If they can be brought to raise questions and apply their decent instincts and basic intelligence, many people quickly escape the confines of the doctrinal system and are willing to do something to help others who are really suffering and oppressed." -Manufacturing Consent: Noam Chomsky and the Media, p. 195
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