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Healing massage is one of my specialties & I love to make my man feel really good and relaxed. We do it on the floor or bed & I either start from the top & shoulders (him laying on his belly or from his toes up to his shoulders, and take a long slow time to rub along the length of All his muscles...never pinch or press too hard. Listen to his/her breathing. I use different lotions, depending upon time & place, but lavender or sandlewood are always a nice fragrence point. In the beginning, you can gently rock your lover with both hands, side to side, like a babe, so that they loosen up. They love this. Cover their bums with a soft blanket to keep them warm also. Have them only think about long deep breathes and join in that experience. I find less talk is much more relaxing, but that's me/us. You will need to cleanse your energy fields on occasion by shaking your hands away from your lover to clear energy blocks. They manifest in many of the lower chakras (energy centers) and feel like electricity sparks. These lower back areas carry old survival memories & impulses from life or death "stuff". As you go up the body slowly be more gentle and aware of your lovers breathing. The shoulders are a big spot of tension. Roll them around gently and tap on them with the sides of your hands. Like gentle karate chops, it's quite envigorating. Knead shoulders like bread. When it's time to roll over, you will want to start at the bottom or top - depending upon your lover's vibes. Be very gentle when you rub the solar plexus, that center of the chest/sternum area. This can be a very intense place of energy pain and or emotion. Sometimes it makes people cry and they don't know why. It is a freeing healing place that is hard to describe. Show care and gentleness there. Rock your lovers head in the cradle of your hands side to side and have them just stay loose- like water. These are steps to a wonderful experience and it gets better every time you share these loving carasses. Have a beautiful time and don't expect sex, perhaps a nap first and spoon together for a while. Caress her hair. Your love will expand in quantum measures.
Peace & love always.
Hunnychile.
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"I need compassion, understanding and chocolate." - NJB
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