Rammallah - it sounds like you feel like a hurt boyfriend... yet you guys were not back together? Honestly, when stressful things come up, normal courtesy responses most often go out the window. While you may be sincere in your worry for her, it is apparent you two are not on the same page about an appropriate level of communication and accountability towards the other. To me, it seems like you have been put back on the Friend burner, and she has chosen to focus her attention with other people during this time.
My reccomendation would be to give her space - you've let her know you're concerned, and the ball is now in her court. If she wants to involve you, she will contact you. If she does not, you need to go on and not sit around waiting for something that she is obviously not interested in at the moment.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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