If you want to drop the PC crap then I'd say love is a very rare thing, and odds are you two don't have it. People think theyre in love all the time it seems, yet we have so many divorces and break ups. Seems we feel we have to love or pretend to or we don't love ourselves. Another problem I think is that english just isn't very good for describing likes and loves. We have too few words for it. For whatever reason when people say "love" we almost always assume its unconditional, but that is so rare in life.
Now don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to tell you how you two feel about each other, just saying statistics wise and in general.
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