Sage

I'm going with tiltedbc on this one- you really have to just take a step back and think about where you want to be, and then see if it matches up with where your SO wants to be. Marriage is HARD- you have to commuincate about EVERYTHING, and sometimes you get scared. About two weeks ago Martel and I had a fight (after a long string of fights, which is really unusual for us) and I was on the couch facing him and I swear, I was scared to death it was over. But you know what he said to me? He said "I'm never going to tell you to go away, no matter what happens." That's the attitude you HAVE to have in your relationship- you love them, they love you, and you're comitted to making it Work Out. So, take a breather- take a weekend for yourself, to be by yourself, turn off the cell phone, take some "me" time. Think long and hard about how you feel, then don't think about anything for a while- the Universe takes care of Her own, and the answer will come to you, if you let it!

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