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When it comes to weight I'm pretty shallow. I like my women to be thin, call it a fetish, but fat is a major turn off to me. A couple of years ago my wife started to pack it on, to the point where I found her to be less attractive. I didn't stop loving her, but I wasn't happy about it either. And I did the wrong thing of course, I nagged her about it because her dieting attempts were half-hearted at best. While the nagging let me blow of steam it didn't do anything to help out.
So instead of approaching it from a possitive angle, I approached it from the negative angle, and it made her less willing to diet.
Now fast forward 2 years, and a baby later. She works out 5 days a week or so, and has lost a lot of weight, shes not perfect but shes getting there. She got to the point she was able to rag on me for being fat and I've now joined her in the work outs and weight loss.
The point to this rambling tale is that you need to want to lose weight for your own reasons. Doing it just for him won't be enough in the long run, you have to want to do it for yourself. If you are happy where you are at you should tell him so. If you want to lose the extra pounds, it should come from a desire within yourself.
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