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Hrm....
On the one hand, if Martel came to me and said "I love you, I love having sex with you, I find you amazingly attractive, but I've noticed lately that you're not exercising as much and I know that you told me that you want to, so can I help you regain your momentum?" that would be one thing. But, if one day, Martel and I were on the couch and he said "Gee, Sage, gettin' a bit pudgy around the edges, aren't we?" I'd probably bitch-slap him. So, it's all in the context. If your BF was just being totally honest, be totally honest back- you like the way you look and don't think there's anything wrong with it. If he still insists that you're "unattractive" until you get thin, I say really think about where your priorities lie.
I spent a year of my life with a loser who thought (honestly, and still does from what I've heard) that the only way a woman was beautiful was if she looked like a porn star. If you can't resolve your BF's attitude that you're only beautiful if you look like what he wants you to look like, drop him like a rock.
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Sage knows our mythic history, King Arthur's and Sir Caradoc's
She answers hard acrostics, has a pretty taste for paradox
She quotes in elegiacs all the crimes of Heliogabalus
In conics she can floor peculiarities parabolous -C'hi
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