"Sexual harassment" has to do with specific situations, like at work. You might be thinking of "stalking". Believe it or not, it's possible to keep after a woman after she turns you down w/o having to worry about either of these. It's a matter of persistance and technique.
For instance, Once Upon a Time, there was this coed I was going to school with. Bright, pretty, bright. Did I say she was bright? Well, she was. Anyway, she was the kind with a cloud of guys around her. I was more persistant than any of them, and had classes with her at times. We'd sit together. I'd call her on the phone. After around 15 months of this, I'd convinced her I was interested for real, that I was a real person, and she wanted to continue.
Harassment? Nope. Sometimes, a person just takes a while to warm to you, or vis versa.
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