How would she react if the situation were reversed--you were drunk in a bar pawing on one of your female friends? I know, she grabbed his hand and had HIM fondle her (over her clothes), but unless you have lesbian friends you could have grope you, my set-up is the closest I could come up with?
Equally important, how would you feel the next day if you'd have been the guilty one?
Sounds like she's feeling the guilt, as you would be, so she's emotionally where I'd think she should be; you're at the anger/hurt stage, as you'd think she'd be.
So far, it seems you're handling things just about right--showing some patience and not doing anything too rash until you've had time to think about it. I agree with Festered--I think this incident just highlighted some underlying issues you may have.
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