The best thing to do in any situation is to just talk about it.
Don't let it fester, don't come to the forum, don't let it blow over if you're still thinking about it.
You want to be honest with one another. Tell her how it made you feel (even if it's month after the incident, if you're thinking about it, talk about it!) Ask her how she feels about it...try to understand one another. The most important thing in a relationship is trying to understand one another, and if that fail, just trust the other person--really basic stuff that people often forget.
(This is probably the same advice I'd give to anyone in any situation.)
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