Well, it's more like love points...
One girl, two guys.
She has been my friend for a few years. She had a crush on me, and to make a long story short, it wasn't until she was with the other guy that I suddenly "fell in love" with her.
She's flip-flopped a couple times, and is very confused...a previous relationship with a misogynist doesn't help (to be fair, I didn't know the guy. So, who knows.)
The other guy would like to murder me, if there weren't dire consequences. But I don't really have a problem with him; except that I hope the girl doesn't fall back with him (I have my biases.) If that happens again, I know we're done forever.
Anyway, She's working things out pretty well. She wants to remain single and avoid sex, while she tries to figure things out. I think it's a great idea; I'm not sure the other guy would honor this proposition (hasn't in the past.)
I miss her a whole lot when she isn't around (which is pretty much why I'm writing this. I haven't seen here, or heard from her in only one day, and I already miss her like crazy and can't sleep.)
(I haven't felt this way sinse high school.)
So, let's here some random thoughts. What do you think is the best way to proceed? Not just for my benifit, but everyone's (even the guy who wants to kill me.) I know there's so much involved that none of you know about...so you'll be sure to miss the finer points.
Thanks!