Menoman

Is she the same age as you are?

I suspect at your age you probably don't live by yourself, or with her by yourselves.

A g/f I once had, had the same problem, and she could bring herself to come as well.

The thing that seemed to be the problem, was that we never had anyplace "Secure" to be sexually uhh explorative! So no matter where we did it, her house (parents) my house (parents), car (cops) there was a nervous tension.

The thing with me, was that excited me greatly, the thought of being caught by the cops, or her parents (I wasn't too excited about my own parents catching me, creepy!)

But with her, it was the opposite and her tension about being caught even when the likelyhood was so very slim, would not allow her to come.

So perhaps, if you got a motel room, where you know your safe from any intrusions. And if motels don't make you feel dirty (get a nice one, pay some good money!) Perhaps that could help you decide if that's the case.



But, if you do live by yourself and already have a safe place without intrusion... disregard my lengthy post!

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