here is what I do to handle the situation. The cat belongs to my girlfriend I hate them not to mention allergic to them as well, so there were stipulations to us getting one. The stipulation is it is her problem, cleaning the box, feeding, watering petting everything is her problem. I do not abuse or ignore "fat bastard" as I call him I will pet him and stuff if he comes rolling around while I am playing with the dogs, but if he yaks and I step in it, I clean myself up then go get her to clean up after her cat
