Assuming I actually had a girlfriend, I wouldn't mind if she drinks. As long as she is able to set a line as to when she should stop and if she can control herself when she is at that line.
As you have said, your girlfriend likes to get pretty drunk and clearly, when she is in such state, she cannot control herself.
As to whether or not I would end a relationship over this. It really depends. First, I would probably discuss with her why I would want her to actually cut back on drinking (aside from health issues), actually help her and then see what happens. If she can't/won't cut back, and she cannot control herself when drunk, then chances are, I doubt I would want to keep going. I mean, if this is the case, she either has a serious problem with alcohol, or she isn't willing to compromise in a relationship.
As for cheating, it's a rather open ended question. I know guys that think it's cheating if their girlfriends kiss another guy and I know guys that don't get particularly upset until it's actual intercourse.
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