I am in the camp of staying home with the kids. Rob and I don't have anym and don't know if we will, but we do think the best thing is having s aparent who is available to the child when needed. I didn't have either of my parents around and I hated sitters and day cares. I even had one sitter who drugged me and some of the other kids with sleeping pills she was getting from her doctor boyfriend. Things like that scare me and I don't trust other people loving and caring for my child the way that I would. Like others have said, it's really all about choice and whether or not it will work for you. All moms should feel good about the jobs they do. They are raising the future afterall.
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