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raeanna74 · 07-21-2005, 03:08 PM

Tell you wife ASAP. Be completely upfront with her. Ask her help in ideas of how to twart this woman and what she thinks this woman could be up to.

Maybe one step farther even - do you have an individual at work responsible for employee relations?? Is it a small close nit company or larger. If it's larger you could keep the issue annonymous easier. It might be important to cover your bases and speak to someone about your unease. Tell them that it may not be a big issue and that you want to avoid trouble but that should the woman pursue the issue further that you want them aware of her activities. Who knows who else she might have tried these things on. Keep everyone necessary informed of the situation without blowing the horn on her.

She definately sounds suspicious. Granted she may be interested in you but no matter what her reasons behind her "request" the result cannot be good.

Lastly (after you've explained the situation to all interested parties) you could confront her about the discomfort that she's caused you. She may have not intended harm and only wanted a tittlating story to read herself but on the other hand she could go ballistic so have your bases covered.

07-21-2005, 03:08 PM	#22 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	Tell you wife ASAP. Be completely upfront with her. Ask her help in ideas of how to twart this woman and what she thinks this woman could be up to. Maybe one step farther even - do you have an individual at work responsible for employee relations?? Is it a small close nit company or larger. If it's larger you could keep the issue annonymous easier. It might be important to cover your bases and speak to someone about your unease. Tell them that it may not be a big issue and that you want to avoid trouble but that should the woman pursue the issue further that you want them aware of her activities. Who knows who else she might have tried these things on. Keep everyone necessary informed of the situation without blowing the horn on her. She definately sounds suspicious. Granted she may be interested in you but no matter what her reasons behind her "request" the result cannot be good. Lastly (after you've explained the situation to all interested parties) you could confront her about the discomfort that she's caused you. She may have not intended harm and only wanted a tittlating story to read herself but on the other hand she could go ballistic so have your bases covered. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.