The same thing happened to me in February. It ended a 3 year long relationship.
It hit me pretty hard simply because it didn't make sense. There is no on/off switch for that sort of stuff. I attribute a lot of it to distance- she was living in Hawaii for a year and I hadn't seen her since August. Even today though, things still don't make sense. And because of that things are still tough when I'm alone and have the time to think.
I'd say the best remedy is to keep busy. But really, I think that being busy ends up being a distraction at best :/ Things will come full circle eventually. Don't forget to smile!
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