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Originally Posted by Sugar&Spice
I'm starting to realize that I'm not dealing with it. I'm doing everything I can to keep busy and be with other people so I do not have to think about how bad it hurts. Right now it helps me, but in the long run I think it's only going to make the situation harder.
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and sometimes that is the right course of action, because you are too emotionally attached to it to make a rational decision. It took me 3 years of drinking and debauchery until I was finally really able to deal with the issue without the emotions welling up inside and overtaking all rational thoughts.
you'll properly deal with it when you are emotionally ready to do so.
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