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Old 07-13-2005, 11:22 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Minx
As far as the "friends with benefits".....I wouldn't do that if I were you. It would be a one-sided relationship with you still caring and him just reaping the benefits. Don't even try to be "friends" with him until you are over the breakup completely, you'll only be more hurt in the long run if you try this tactic. Again....speaking from experience here.
Thought I would second that one.

Seriously, take some time for yourself--walk away for a few months. If, after six months (at the minimum), you can be friends, good. But don't be afraid to just walk away for your own self-preservation.

A lot of us around here have been in your shoes. You will recover, but as Bill says, it just takes time. Sorry, sweetheart. Feel better soon.
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