I think that's a little more specific than it need be. In my necessarily limited experience, I'd say most everyone wants both. Maybe not right away, but yeah. I mean, I love my girl and the sex is great. In this relationship the love is more important than the sex, but the sex is still important. I've been in relationships where the opposite is true, too though. Or ones where there is no love, more like sex and companionship, but those never seem to last.
It's a very over-romanticized notion that 'love conquers all'. We still have urges regardless and therefore sex is pretty well always important.
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- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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