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match000 · 07-13-2005, 01:12 AM

Hi everyone,

I've met this group of 8 girls who are here in California as summer ESL students and will return to Asia afterwards. Well, initially the fugly one (who is the dominant, unquestionable leader of the group) was really nice to me and I thought she was just being friendly.

So I am nice to her in the hopes that she can continue to be a bridge to 2 cute girls in the group I want to ask out, but after a few more dinners with the whole group I realize that I have been "Claimed" by the fugly girl as the cute girls I want to hit on become all quiet when fugly's around, but are somewhat interested when I talk to them when she's not around.

I tried to sit with the one I like, but she told me to "go to the other end of the table." I was like "why?". And she was like "That's where you are supposed to sit." And yeah, it was a setup. I always must sit beside/across from fugly whenever I hang out with the group.

I now regret setting up the next few social activities with the group. I set them up in the hopes that I could talk to the cute girls I like, but instead it looks like I am stuck with fugly the whole way through!!

I have *very little* girl experience (even talking!) in my life, so I welcomed this opportunity to practice. Now it's driving me up the wazooo. The fugly girl has disallowed all the other girls from hitting on me.

So I come upon two choices:

1) Hit on cute girl I like, asking her to singly go out with me. This is highly likely to fail as she will be outcasted from the group by the fugly one and will experience hostility for the rest of her time here (10 days left only!). And well, she'd probably rather not make an enemy out of her floormates! None of them knew each other before their ESL group-tour, though.

Plus, shit blows up, and I'd rather not leave the girls with a bad impression/experience.

2) Finish off the next few events planned. Endure torture of fugly girl while not being able to talk to the cute girls I like. I do get some practice though, but I'd rather not have to look at fugly so much. And it's not much practice since I'm not attracted to her at all, of course.

I don't mean to sound mean, but this is not to her face and she will never know about this post.

What do you say? Suggestions?

Thanks for your time,
Troubled troubled guy

07-13-2005, 01:12 AM	#1 (permalink)
match000 Psycho	Girls in Groups and Fugly Girl Cockblocking Hi everyone, I've met this group of 8 girls who are here in California as summer ESL students and will return to Asia afterwards. Well, initially the fugly one (who is the dominant, unquestionable leader of the group) was really nice to me and I thought she was just being friendly. So I am nice to her in the hopes that she can continue to be a bridge to 2 cute girls in the group I want to ask out, but after a few more dinners with the whole group I realize that I have been "Claimed" by the fugly girl as the cute girls I want to hit on become all quiet when fugly's around, but are somewhat interested when I talk to them when she's not around. I tried to sit with the one I like, but she told me to "go to the other end of the table." I was like "why?". And she was like "That's where you are supposed to sit." And yeah, it was a setup. I always must sit beside/across from fugly whenever I hang out with the group. I now regret setting up the next few social activities with the group. I set them up in the hopes that I could talk to the cute girls I like, but instead it looks like I am stuck with fugly the whole way through!! I have very little girl experience (even talking!) in my life, so I welcomed this opportunity to practice. Now it's driving me up the wazooo. The fugly girl has disallowed all the other girls from hitting on me. So I come upon two choices: 1) Hit on cute girl I like, asking her to singly go out with me. This is highly likely to fail as she will be outcasted from the group by the fugly one and will experience hostility for the rest of her time here (10 days left only!). And well, she'd probably rather not make an enemy out of her floormates! None of them knew each other before their ESL group-tour, though. Plus, shit blows up, and I'd rather not leave the girls with a bad impression/experience. 2) Finish off the next few events planned. Endure torture of fugly girl while not being able to talk to the cute girls I like. I do get some practice though, but I'd rather not have to look at fugly so much. And it's not much practice since I'm not attracted to her at all, of course. I don't mean to sound mean, but this is not to her face and she will never know about this post. What do you say? Suggestions? Thanks for your time, Troubled troubled guy Last edited by match000; 07-13-2005 at 01:16 AM..