Yep - sounds like Mommy's having the freak-out jitters. Sounds like a mommy-son issue that you're caught in sort of tangentially. She's calling him "spoiled and ungrateful"....is there any basis for this in his past actions towards his parents, above and beyond normal parental support. Is he generally indepedent?
I'd see if the future MIL will give your fiance more information about her specific reservations concerning you. Every parent is going to have worries about their wittle babies making their own families and what not, but I think that's just a normal part of parenting. Unless it turns out that she thinks you really are suddenly a very bad person, I'd assume the underlying emotional issues have very little to do with you and much more to do with her relationship with her son. I'd personally be tempted to steer clear and let him handle it. Kind of sounds like he might need to man up and have one of those sit-down talks with Mommy.
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