joemc91

I hate to bump this back up, but I'm at my wits end. To put it simply, I went into this last month and relationship full steam, studying almost every waking hour for my job and trying to visit when I could on the little time I had off. It started out ok, we both understood that I couldn't visit the first week as I couldn't travel yet. During the first week, we talked occasionally. We figured I could come up the next Friday night or Saturday morning and see each other. Late that week scheduling a barbeque with friends on Friday night, the night I had planned on visiting. Instead of inviting me to it, she said she wouldn't be able to pick me up. Sadly, it has been like this for the past few weeks now. Last weekend she said she'd go to Wisconsin with her family for the weekend, which is cool. But she ended up sticking around till Saturday evening and going to a baseball game with some friends. And this weekend she is going to Wisconsin with her friends, again nothing. Even worse though was that I sent a birthday present to her which arrived last Thursday and have yet to even get a call or IM thank you.

I get two feelings out of this. One is that she is not interested in me anymore. I talked to her about this last week but she said she still is. Personally I feel as if I have become her last priority. She says she is busy but I know she spends a lot of time just visiting with friends in the evening and on the weekend. The other feeling I get is that she's got something for her friend from back home. I hate to make that judgement but it's just a feeling I get. I'm going nuts with this.