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Originally Posted by Daniel_
Co-ed wrestling?
Seriously, you can't date them if you didn't meet them. And you won't be a more attractive a prospect as a sit-at-home net-head than you would if you have a fit body and interesting hobbies.
Take up a sport - something low impact like Fencing is cool, or a mixed sport like badminton or bowling (european or 10 pin) you get to meet women, you get to chat and be friends, and if things work out you never know how things might develop.
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i'm not a sit-at-home nethead :P i play basketball, volleyball, and workout. perhaps, thinking that i'm "not ready" is just a front and i'm just scared.
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Originally Posted by tooth
Maybe you're not ready for a relationship, but what about casual dating? Does anyone do that anymore? See people, go on dates, without being "boyfriend and girlfriend"?
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dating is pretty intimidating to me right now. my last relationship was my marriage and she was my girlfriend before that. maybe there isn't a "quick-fix" to sharing physical contact and intimacy.
