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In person I and my family are very open about our personal lives. It's likely that in person my family is a bit TOO open because they're constantly airing their dirty laundry all about.
Hubby and I are both members of TFP. So discussing matters that I would hope to keep from my husband are quite impossible and I actually find myself rarely even considering mentioning anything. It actually seems as though when I have considered discussing something here that's bothering me with our marriage that I usually decide that I need to discuss it with hubby first before bringing it up here. My thinking is that if I were to bring it up without at least first giving him a chance to be aware of it that he would be somewhat offended by that. Usually then though, after hubby and I discuss it I feel no need to even bring up my complaint here. This is a very good thing that TFP has done for me/us.
I am also aware that there are several friends/family who are aquainted with TFP. Some are members, some were members in another TFP life. No matter though I tend to be somewhat careful about who I complain about for fear it would get back to the wrong person. That is unless the complaint is COMPLETELY justified.
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