Shani- Thats wonderfull that you and Dave are so open to everyone. I am really really open to my close friends and family. They know anything they want to and everything if they want to. My problem is the random people. I know that this place it dedicated to helping people with various situations, and I embrace that. I guess I just don't feel the need to throw out intimate details about my current personal life. The difference is that there is some things that I don't feel people should or have to right to know about me.
I make no assumptions about my SO. I would not post about her life no matter what the circumstances unless she gave me consent or asked me to seek outside advice. I guess maybe I'm not sure what I'm asking other than trying to feel out how other people approach the situation.
Do you guys ask first? "can I post about this online and see what others have to say?" or do you post first? "well some one on the forum posted that we should try this"
How does one broach the online community topic, especially to someone who doesn't know or have experience about/with it.
"HEY HONEY! I got it under good recommendation that this dildo will make you come!"
little awkward I think lol.
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