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maleficent · 07-05-2005, 03:39 PM

I am not an open person by any stretch of the imagination, and there are some things I just won't talk about here because I just dont have that comfort level here... but other things- eh - -I made my peace with it so if something in my past can help someone else.. then I have no problem with it.

Everyone has their own limits as to what they will and will not talk about. I would hope that whatever people said about their spouses here, would also say in front of their spouses (in some cases, I know that's not the case, where as other couples I think the honestly that is expressed here helps to enhance their relationship -- but that could be the Pollyanna in me talking...

Anonynimity makes it a lot easier to divulge things... and if people are ok with it - then - well... :shrug:

07-05-2005, 03:39 PM	#3 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	I am not an open person by any stretch of the imagination, and there are some things I just won't talk about here because I just dont have that comfort level here... but other things- eh - -I made my peace with it so if something in my past can help someone else.. then I have no problem with it. Everyone has their own limits as to what they will and will not talk about. I would hope that whatever people said about their spouses here, would also say in front of their spouses (in some cases, I know that's not the case, where as other couples I think the honestly that is expressed here helps to enhance their relationship -- but that could be the Pollyanna in me talking... Anonynimity makes it a lot easier to divulge things... and if people are ok with it - then - well... :shrug: __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less. Last edited by maleficent; 07-05-2005 at 04:19 PM..