i'm a relatively young guy (28) and i've been divorced for about 2 years. that's how long it's been since i've had any sort of intimate/physical contact as well.
i'm not ready for a relationship right now. i know that for sure.
however, i really, really miss physical contact with women. of course, i miss the actual sex, but i really miss the foreplay, cuddling, and everything else leading up to sex. i've been to a strip club once with some friends, in the last 2 years. instead of just mashing the girl's boobs around, i enjoyed the closeness of her most. running my hands up and down her back and through her hair felt amazing. of course, her boobies were nice
, but her "closeness" was something that turned me on more.
has anyone been in the same situation? am i SOL until i find a relationship?