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s3b · 07-04-2005, 03:05 PM

Thanks for everyone who commented. I think I was not exactly in the right state of mind when I wrote that post, caught up in the moment of the idea of traveling to an exotic place with him. In case anyone is interested, an UPDATE.

our trip got cancelled because he didnt get the job he was hoping for, but i recently went back to san diego to visit everyone taking summer school and spending the summer there. we met up for lunch, along with a few other friends and I guess the main reason I posted was because I was hoping for some input as to whether or not the things he did inferred he possibly had feelings for me? For now, I've decided I'm going to let go. I don't want him to break up or have any problems with his GF although I heard the first "threat to break up" had already happened about a week ago. There's nothing for us right now, we're in different places physically for the summer and I'll be gone for a year, so if it's really something special we can figure it out when I get back. The whole "one night of wild sex" was sort of a crazy unrealistic idea, but I agree that it would be inconsiderate and selfish. I don't want his girlfriend to get hurt from him and i's amazing friendship, nor do I want to spoil our friendship, so for now I guess... hopefully I'll get over him before the summer ends.. and you guys are right.. our amazing friendship isn't worth screwing over for a night that may turn into a mistake.

What a boring update, sorry but thanks for all those who commented! =)

07-04-2005, 03:05 PM	#12 (permalink)
s3b Upright	Thanks for everyone who commented. I think I was not exactly in the right state of mind when I wrote that post, caught up in the moment of the idea of traveling to an exotic place with him. In case anyone is interested, an UPDATE. our trip got cancelled because he didnt get the job he was hoping for, but i recently went back to san diego to visit everyone taking summer school and spending the summer there. we met up for lunch, along with a few other friends and I guess the main reason I posted was because I was hoping for some input as to whether or not the things he did inferred he possibly had feelings for me? For now, I've decided I'm going to let go. I don't want him to break up or have any problems with his GF although I heard the first "threat to break up" had already happened about a week ago. There's nothing for us right now, we're in different places physically for the summer and I'll be gone for a year, so if it's really something special we can figure it out when I get back. The whole "one night of wild sex" was sort of a crazy unrealistic idea, but I agree that it would be inconsiderate and selfish. I don't want his girlfriend to get hurt from him and i's amazing friendship, nor do I want to spoil our friendship, so for now I guess... hopefully I'll get over him before the summer ends.. and you guys are right.. our amazing friendship isn't worth screwing over for a night that may turn into a mistake. What a boring update, sorry but thanks for all those who commented! =)