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You guys need a safeword.
Imagine if there was a word she could say to let you know she doesn't want it. And by not saying that word (you would agree in advance) she communicates her consent.
Well, you could pretty much step up, at that point, couldn't you? You wouldn't have to check in with her over and over again if she was okay, and you wouldn't have to be polite and kind. You could actually treat her like an adult, somebody who you could trust to say for herself if she was okay or not.
I'll tell you, some of the hottest sex lurkette and I have ever had as been times I've dominated her and held her down and taken her however I want her. Good times.
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