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cool.. these are things that I have thought myself. We have visited toy stores, do have kids (4), are not very social (clubs etc) but could probably be, do experiment (take showers together often, etc) and actually have a really good relationship.
I think that its not a matter of being sexual, or not having the desire, it's a matter of her wanting to be treated as a female, as i am usually too "kind" or "polite" to put it in her words. I'm not looking for ways to "force" it upon her, ,but to give her the feeling that she is being loved/dominated/ or having the ability to let go and go with it and not feel like she has to initiate everything etc..
My search for approval and consent often makes me hesitate, which i feel she see's as looking for directino from her. The doesn't want to give me direction.. she wants to be taken away and just plain taken ... if that makes sense..
I suppose if I think about it a while i can come up with ways to so this.. just looking for pthers ideas.
thanks,
Silver Tiger
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