Drunken makeout etiquette
I've recently discovered myself in a social situation I never thought I would encounter. It would appear that, at least while drunk, one of my neighbors thinks I'm hot. She finally clued me in on this fact last night right before she started kissing me. I know enough about her to realize that she doesn't really want a long term relationship, which if fine by me because right now I don't really want one either. With any luck, I'm going to be joining the Coast Guard in a few months and didn't really want to start a relationship just to end it. However, a fling like this would be a great way to pass the next couple of months.
The point of this post is to see if anyone has any experience on how to handle post drunken makeout sessions. I talked to her today, and she didn't seem embarased to talk to me, so I'm taking that as a good sign. However, I am by no means "In there" as of yet.
I've pretty much decided that for the time being, I have to let her initiate things. I thought about going over today to hang out, but decided that space probably needs to be my guiding line in this matter. I think the only time I get to visit the land of make out is going to be when she has had a few to drink (at least for the time being).
If it happens again, I've wondered about a few things.
1) Is this taking advantage of her? She was drunk, but not totally gone. She did seem to remember most of it this morning.
2) How much can I let my hands roam? She has a nice ass, ever since I've met her, I would like to get my hands on it. Is it off limits till we expand the peramiters of our relationship?
3) Am I allowed to buy her a beer now and again? Or is that kind of creepy?
So lets hear it TPers, let us know about the time you and a coworker got drunk and went at it like a couple who's plane was about to go down. Let me know how you managed to turn a one time event into a long time thing. Or let me know how making out with a neighbor screwed up your life.
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