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It seems to me you got the wrong impression from her emails. They seem to be joking. That is why it is always better to communicate verbally. In written communication, whether it be letters, emails, IMs, whatever, it is much harder to convey tone for things like sarcasm/joking. People in long distance relationships run into this problem as well. So the next time you're going to tell a girl how you feel do it face to face. She'll respect you more, whether she reciprocates the feelings or not, and there is a far lesser chance of misinterpreting what goes on.
The fact that she acts like nothing has changed is another indication she thought you were joking. If she really was creeped out/ unintereseted, she would likely avoid you. Of course, there are some women who just like to mess with guys, and she very well could be one of them.
As for what to do, I'd try to get away from her. Stop hanging out with her; nothing good will come from it. If possible, you may want to look into transferring or moving to a different location. She doesn't want a relationship with you. You need to accept that and realize that holding out hope is only going to hurt yourself.
Hang in there.
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