I totally agree with Guthmund... good lord man, get some back bone.
I know you said that this is your first relationship, but imo you're not in a relationship here. And you wont be. If that's what you're expecting, it's well past time to move on. If you're just looking for good times rather love, than by all means go for it; but you're not going to get anything else out of this. And with the other guy around it sounds like it will be rocky no matter what happens.
Just try to recognize that she's playing an extremely immature game with both you and this other guys' emotions, and is not worth it. She may seem upset about the situation and bring out the protective side in you, but she still is in control of the situation no matter what she says.
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